with your son and possibly future dil/sil when they are older. I don't really get along with my mil and dh rarely speaks to her as she was very jealous and controlling. I always used to think the saying
'a son's a son until he finds a wife and a daugter's a daughter for the rest of your life'
Now after having two son's i fear its going to haunt me am i going to turn into the psycho controlling mil. I know its a long way into the future but i would love to have a good relationship with my boys and their future partner.......