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missing sex when dh works away, what "toy" do you recommend i get?

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yada · 20/08/2009 12:32

serious thread!

dh has always worked away with his job and is away again just now, usually when he is here we have sex most nights.

for some reason i am really missing the sex this time around, 'doing it myself' does not make much diffrence iykwim and i am not impressed with the two vibrators i already have (the original rabbit and a huge big bright blue thing that i could knock someone out with)

how does everyone else manage when in this situation? what can you recommend i buy?


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Malificence · 20/08/2009 12:44

How about a "clone a willy" then you can have the best of your hubby while he's away!

Big doesn't mean better with sex toys - how about a powerful bullet in conjunction with a cock ring so you can both enjoy it? you can use the bullet solo and then combine the two for joint use when he's at home.
Lovehoney do a 7 function bullet with a ring, it definiely adds somehting to sex, you need to be on top for best efect.
It depends what stimulation you like when alone - if you want penetration and clit stimulation the I can recommend the g-spot vibes, I have a smallish one and prefer it to anything heavier.
I find solo orgasms a poor substitute for actual sex though but sometimes you have to scratch that itch.

Iklboo · 20/08/2009 12:47

Anne Summers used to do something called a Pulsatron or something. Several adaptors & 'inserts' and you could wind up the speed to something that could pulversie brick
Fecking AMAZING pity it finally popped its wee battery driven clogs

lisad123wantsherquoteinDM · 20/08/2009 12:48

nothing, nothing is as good as a warm man

OrmIrian · 20/08/2009 12:52

Another man

yada · 20/08/2009 12:54

i live with a lot of other wives in the same position as me and they do use another man!!

not for me though, have it to good with the one i have got

will have a look at lovehoney, i prefer to go into the ann summers shop rather than order online but i cant get 5mins away from my dc at the moment.

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notevenamousie · 20/08/2009 13:02

Clitoral stimulation is the vital thing for me. Replace the batteries often (buy rechargeable ones) because that makes a BIG difference. Would you DH be able to help you out over the phone, as it were? Otherwise, a glass of wine helps

BitOfFun · 20/08/2009 13:11

You cannot beat these IMO.

Seven hours of battery
It would never be required for longer than about a minute though

BalloonSlayer · 20/08/2009 14:08

Blimey BOF, that's expensive.

I loved the review that said: "The vibrations are intense and they feel great all over ? my back, my legs, my shoulders, and my pussy. Plus it's silent so that I don't disturb anyone. I even use Nea on my cat, who loves the deep tissue massage. "

Yes, dear, you'd already mentioned the cat

gingernutlover · 20/08/2009 14:19

"I love that it is Scandinavian, because so much of quality comes from that region."

PMSL, I wonder what other "products" from that "region" she is comparing it to

OrmIrian · 20/08/2009 15:01

On the cat! Bloody hell poor little thing

Is it made of pine?

Rubyrubyrubyrubi · 20/08/2009 15:05

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BitOfFun · 20/08/2009 15:22

BalloonSlayer

I got one with my staff discount...I am only sorry I don't have a cat

sunshine2009 · 21/08/2009 09:56

rabbit. nothing will compare to it and I have tried practically every sex toy going. I love my rabbit.

yada · 21/08/2009 21:30

what rabbit is it though sunshine?

i like the look of bitoffuns link

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sunshine2009 · 24/08/2009 08:27

I have the ann summers elite, the wave and had the orginal one but broke it. I also have the dolphin which is similar to the rabbit but a dolphin lol. I got that when I used to do sex toy testing for a website and it was free. Any of the rabbits are good so just look on ann summers really

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