few questions for those of you who have a healthy sex life with your oh.

[kerrrrching]

1/ how many times a week do you do it.

2/ where do you usually do it.

3/ who makes the first move.

4/ if you cant be bothered/are to tired to go the whole way do you bother with quick hand jobs or just leave it till another night.

5/ how long have you been together.

i love my dh loads but am starting to get so fed up of the constant begging for sex every morning and night (and i do mean every) not a day goes past when i dont get hounded for it upon wakening then again at bedtime.

it is starting to become a issue now (he actually puts me of sex by the constant begging like a randy 15 year old) amd i want to try and get some idea of what is "normal" to other couples before i try and think of the best way to approach this.

1. maybe once a month if I'm lucky
2. bed, v. occaisionally downstairs
3. always her (not through lack of interest on my part)
4. nope
5. 12 years

(this is from a guy's perspective)

1. 4 or 5 times (but more at the moment due to pregnancy hormones)

1. Bed or sofa

1. Him 80% of the time usually

1. If I don't feel like it, he will ask very nicely for an alternative and I usually oblige!

1. 5 years