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DH wants us to try some thing...

46 replies

beastoftheeast · 22/06/2009 15:42

Not a TROLL. Bit of a tricky one this, DH wants us to try weeing on each other, Im not keen want advice really.
Have joined under a new identity as DH sometimes looks on MN.

OP posts:
Alambil · 22/06/2009 15:44

that's gross imo...

don't do it if you don't want to

candyfluff · 22/06/2009 15:46

no way thats what the toilet is for

shootfromthehip · 22/06/2009 15:48

Yuck.

whoisasking · 22/06/2009 15:48

If you're not keen don't do it.

If you try it and he likes it, URINE too deep. {wink] sorry, sorry.

morningpaper · 22/06/2009 15:48

you are too old for this

no one wants to know their mummy wees on daddy

fine if you are 22 and doing it to your boss

not fine once you are a mummy or sober

FigmentOfYourImagination · 22/06/2009 15:52

if you want to try it then try in the bath/shower first.

Make sure you have both had lots of water to drink so that your/his urine is as weak as possible.

Maybe if you are not keen but are will to compromise a bit / try something once perhaps suggest that you wee on him as a starting point then you can both decide if you want to take it further ?

Don't do it if you don't want to. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks about it, what you and your partner consent to doing in the privacy of your own home is nobody elses business.

FigmentOfYourImagination · 22/06/2009 15:53

(btw I am not a golden shower fan but have tried it and was neither offended nor aroused by it). There are far worse fetishes imo.

hereidrawtheline · 22/06/2009 15:57

I do wonder why some people enjoy this. I can picture doing it but not getting anything out of it. I am really genuinely curious, I'd love someone who loved it to explain to me how it makes them feel & why it was desirable for them.

FigmentOfYourImagination · 22/06/2009 16:00

ex was into it.

He liked it because it was taboo and very intimate also he liked the physical warmth of it.

I was like you. No problem with giving but it didn't do anything for me sexually

morningpaper · 22/06/2009 16:00

fetishes are generally traceable in some sense back to early childhood events or events that occured during 'emerging sexuality' i.e. around 10ish. So wee is quite an obvious one i.e. seeing another child/adult pissing somewhere is quite a taboo-breaker and can be easily associated with sex etc.

dittany · 22/06/2009 16:02

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hereidrawtheline · 22/06/2009 16:02

thanks morningpaper & figment

I shall watch DS with interest around the age of 10 to see what he gets up to sorry slightly irreverent there. Seriously though I kind of get that - something happened to me at that age (a very big negative) which has stuck around so I can see the correlation.

FigmentOfYourImagination · 22/06/2009 16:02

Now poo on the other hand is one I really can't even begin to comprehend.

hereidrawtheline · 22/06/2009 16:08

there are LOTS of things I cant begin to comprehend! LOL poo being one of them yuck. Also I had a rare look at porn on the net the other day and it was so boring. cock shot, anal shot, penetration shot, nipple clutching shot, wide open mouth shot. Just blah. Why bother? It cant even really scratch an itch can it?

FigmentOfYourImagination · 22/06/2009 16:10

lol @ itch scratching

FigmentOfYourImagination · 22/06/2009 16:11

God, I hope IT aren't tracing me. I'm at work

hereidrawtheline · 22/06/2009 16:16

oh god I am going from bad to worse. I read your post and thought it said "I'm wanking" I was going to say you might not want to wank at your desk!

I have done nothing but laugh at myself all day today I have read things wrong so many times!!! Blame DS who kept me up all night.

oh lordy. Ah well. someone whip me with a wet noodle.

FigmentOfYourImagination · 22/06/2009 16:25

Crikey ! Deffo not wanking, am in open plan office !

hereidrawtheline · 22/06/2009 16:28

hehe

well at any rate, back to the poo

rookiemater · 22/06/2009 16:36

Wasn't there an episode of Sex in the City about this once ? SJP had a boyfriend who wanted her to do this to him and it was a deal breaker for her.

At the end of the day it is obviously a turn on for some. I can't see why and if my DH announced an interest in it I don't think I would be terribly keen to indulge him. Maybe once a year on his birthday provided he did all the sheet washing afterwards.

JamesAndTheGiantBanana · 22/06/2009 16:52

Someone should set up a dating website to match up all the single men who find peeing sexy with all the semi-incontinent single women out there. I'm sure there'd be a market for it. Like those dating sites for people with herpes. Yum.

whomovedmychocolate · 22/06/2009 17:22

The only golden showers my husband is allowed to deposit in my lap are 24 carat

abedelia · 22/06/2009 18:20

Friend of a friend once went back to the flat of a person he pulled at a club. she wanted him to lie under a glass topped coffee table while she squatted above and curled out a poo! Each to their own but I cannot think why that would be even slightly erotic.

Mind you, I also have a real thing about seeing feet on the Tube (as in most are really gnarly and make me feel sick, old ladies with long toenails particularly), so foot fetishes are also way beyond my comprehension...

HecatesTwopenceworth · 22/06/2009 18:22

abedelia, that is so gross!!! tell me he legged it!

abedelia · 22/06/2009 18:24

Absolutely - still, I suppose if she tried it a few times she might get lucky once or twice! Sorry, I just realised I posted that right at tea-time...