I was going to name change but then I figured people would probably think I was trolling or something so here goes ...
It takes me bloody forever! Usually so long that one or both of us gets bored and gives up but it seems to be taking even longer than normal atm. Is it normal to take so long? I'm not on any new medication or anything so that can't be it. I can be right on the brink and I'll be thinking this is it and then nothing. I even ejaculate but don't feel a thing. I've tried concentrating on the big o, not concentrating, thinking out fantasies in my head, trying not to think of anything, letting my mind wander, tensing up, relaxing, breathing quickly, deep slow breathing, even holding my breath lol. Nothing is working and it's leaving us both very frustrated.
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