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106 replies

cod · 28/04/2005 16:17

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HappyDaddy · 28/04/2005 17:22

I wouldn't do it with anyone other than dw. No matter what you lot think!

HappyDaddy · 28/04/2005 17:23

No comment nutcracker.

nutcracker · 28/04/2005 17:23

LOL Hd

HappyDaddy · 28/04/2005 17:27

See, I haven't tried to turn your comments into an offer of internet sex, nucracker...

nutcracker · 28/04/2005 17:28

, I should hope not HD

HappyDaddy · 28/04/2005 17:30

Ahhh but there are certain people here who will think I've CATed you instead! LOL

lou33 · 28/04/2005 17:31

dont know flum, maybe that's worthy of a new thread, to see what the consensus was?

nutcracker · 28/04/2005 17:33

oh so do you want me to deny that then ???

Easy · 28/04/2005 17:34

I think acting out sex with someone else is tantamount to being unfaithful.

But then I'm old-fashioned, conservative, naive and downright ancient (one of he oldest on mn anyway).

ToEmbarassedToPostUnderUsualNa · 28/04/2005 19:26

Easy - I quite agree.
I've done cybersex and phone sex when I was younger (and not married) and it is definitely being unfaithful. Both my cybersex buddy and I were involved with other people but we used to whip each other into a frenzy at work, and then on a Friday go home to our partners. Very enjoyable - could have been sacked as the emails were very explicit!!

lou33 · 28/04/2005 19:30

msn is good for doing it

JoolsToo · 28/04/2005 19:30

"But then I'm old-fashioned, conservative, naive and downright ancient (one of he oldest on mn anyway)."

this sounds just like me! (not naive though, I've had my moments )

I think its just downright tacky - yuk!

lou33 · 28/04/2005 19:31

even if it's with your own partner?

ToEmbarassedToPostUnderUsualNa · 28/04/2005 19:34

I dont think its tacky with your partner - if he/she works away, it can be kinda fun. Better that than they use a porn mag surely.
BUT doing it with someone other than your partner is definitely wrong & unfaithful because those are intimate thoughts/feelings

Like I said, I was young and not married and I do feel guilty

nutcracker · 28/04/2005 19:35

Should say actually, that i haven't ever had internet sex or phone sex though, have never been offered it LOL

lou33 · 28/04/2005 19:37

is that a hint nutty?

NomDePlume · 28/04/2005 19:41

I've done it, over a webcam too

lou33 · 28/04/2005 19:45

tart

JoolsToo · 28/04/2005 19:46

not with your own partner, no.

Easy · 28/04/2005 19:50

No lou, I didn't mean with your partner. I meant that acting out sex with someone other than your partner is being unfaithful.

If it's the person you're supposed to have sex with, then that's fine.

lou33 · 28/04/2005 19:59

oh i wasn't taking it personally, i was just asking. Thick skin i have.

how come NdeP hasn't been back to insult me?

NomDePlume · 28/04/2005 20:01

POSSIBLE TMI WARNING ! I wasn't married at the time. I was in an LTR (not with DH) but it was an added aside exDP & I allowed each other. Excellent in the way that my ex wasn't much of a one for foreplay and so the net sex was a bit of a thrill before the real thing. Worked a treat.

However, DH just isn't that kind of bloke and is (thankfully) better in the sack so no need for net friends like that anymore - hurrah !

NomDePlume · 28/04/2005 20:02

(I was downstairs performing mundame Mummy tasks, Lou)

NomDePlume · 28/04/2005 20:02

mundane

NomDePlume · 28/04/2005 20:03

BTW, I thought you were making a personal statement, I read it as 'Lou33 Tart'

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