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Dilema Sleeping with 20 year old, please be gentle

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toyboylover · 31/12/2008 10:07

Please somebody come and slap me, I am a regular and over the festive period I have ended up sleeping with a 20 year old man and he keeps on wanting to see me I am a old women compared to him, I am 35 and single (people think I am only in my mid 20's), but he thinks I am sexy and he says he enjoys my company. Do I just enjoy this for what it is or knock it on the head.

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Pannacotta · 31/12/2008 16:38

Think we are all feeling a bit envious!
Enjoy it and please dont worry about the neighbours think!

KerryMumbles · 31/12/2008 16:39

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theladysnowlush · 31/12/2008 17:57

Defo enjoy it. Why cut off your nose......?

lou33 · 31/12/2008 17:58

enjoy it, have some fun

if it helps you feel better at all, the last person i had sex with was 24 and i am 42 in a couple of days

theladysnowlush · 31/12/2008 18:01

Hmmm think I might have to sack dh

theladysnowlush · 31/12/2008 18:02

That was a joke by the way

lou33 · 31/12/2008 18:04

are you sure?

misscathcart · 31/12/2008 18:07

go lou!!

lou33 · 31/12/2008 18:09

most of my friends seem to think the same lines as you

tho i did get told off by one of them , albeit with a smile on his face

hercules1 · 31/12/2008 18:14

Oh god, I am happily married but sometimes wish dh would bugger off. Sounds so exciting.

LAUGHLOTS · 31/12/2008 18:38

i want a 20 year old!!!!

random · 31/12/2008 18:41

Go girl!!! [Envy]

lou33 · 31/12/2008 18:44

i have to say it isnt necessarily age that decides their capability in bed

24 yr old has always been good, and i have had appallingly bad sex with a 38 yr old and a 29 yr old (though not at the same time)

nappyaddict · 31/12/2008 19:18

toyboylover can you pass him onto me when you've finished

lou33 · 31/12/2008 20:11

yes we need to find nappy a decent young man

nappyaddict · 31/12/2008 20:40

or old ... i'm not fussy!

theladysnowlush · 01/01/2009 13:51

lou33

bananaknickers · 01/01/2009 13:55

Can't belive you are even asking this op. You clearly want to show of and make us all jealous. You have suceeded.

blondemum · 01/01/2009 15:01

i think you can tell by the jealous and envious responses that you should carry on seeing him. Blimey lady life is not a rehearsal.
Cor, young, firm and great sex!!! wow.... cow!! hee hee

mummytowillow · 01/01/2009 20:47

OH MY GOD I'M SOOOOOO

You go girl, enjoy every moment!

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toyboylover · 05/01/2009 11:57

Hi everyone typical my internet has been down but the toyboy has been up

No didnt intend to make anyone jealous, I honestly thought I would have been slated and everyone saying that I was mad for even sleeping with a 20 year old.

Yes I know he is 20 as I know his brother.

Yes it is based on sex but we get on well got the same sense of humour and we are always laughing about things together. Have seen him all weekend as my boys where away. Kept thinking he would want to go home but he just stayed and chatted. He wanted to come round at tea time but my boys are back.

Still not told anyone in RL as I do think I am mad and am worried what people would say.

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