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Does oral sex constitue adultery ( NO BIll, you needn't reply)

46 replies

youropinionspleez · 06/12/2008 15:24

well?

straw pool for arguements sake?

OP posts:
rolandbrowning · 06/12/2008 15:26

I would say it's more intimate than sex, so yes.

cluelessnchaos · 06/12/2008 15:26

of course

Hassled · 06/12/2008 15:27

Yes. Legal definition is refers to sexual relations" - not just penetrative sex.

HolyGuacamole · 06/12/2008 15:27

Absolutely yes.

Lulumama · 06/12/2008 15:28

yes, being intimate sexually with someone other than your spouse/long term partner, when you are not in an open relationship, is definitely adultery

LIZS · 06/12/2008 15:29

er yes !

stickybeaker · 06/12/2008 15:30

Of course, but who's 'bill'?

AlistairSim · 06/12/2008 15:31

Hell, yes.

Why?

pagwatch · 06/12/2008 15:32

Clinton..
who memorably said he didn't think it was.

Of course it is.
But I would start having a serious problem with intimate texts or private lunches so oral sex is miles beyond my divorce line

shitehawk · 06/12/2008 15:32

Of course it does. I don't see how anyone could think not.

kormaisforlifenotjustchristmas · 06/12/2008 15:32

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

LittleJingleBellas · 06/12/2008 15:34

FGS of course it does

asdmumandteacher · 06/12/2008 15:35

absolutely yes

ToThrottleaRedRobin · 06/12/2008 15:35

Yes

thenewme · 06/12/2008 15:35

of course it does

cheeseandsproutssarnie · 06/12/2008 15:40

yes.i dont see why anyone would need to ask?

TheTwelveDAISYOfChristmas · 06/12/2008 15:49

absolutely.

clam · 06/12/2008 15:55

Yes. Without doubt.

But why do you ask?

ChukkyPig · 06/12/2008 16:06

ROFL yes can't imagine anyone would try to argue otherwise!

I was just sucking his nob/going down on her - nothing to do with sex at all you understand.

About as convincing as peter srringfellow's mate saying strip clubs had nothing to do with people getting sexually aroused!

Hope you haven't had someone trying to convince you otherwise

AreYouCallingMeDarling · 06/12/2008 16:10

Yes

Totally

No question

why?

hecAteAMillionMincePies · 06/12/2008 16:12

yes. any intimate act with a person other than your spouse is adultery.

Well, it is if you are doing it behind their back and betraying them. If the pair of you are swingers, then I suppose it comes under 'hobby'.

Joolyjoolyjoo · 06/12/2008 16:14

It is adultery as far as I am concerned

BitOfFunUnderTheMistletoe · 06/12/2008 16:24

it's just the same as kissing though, but not on the mouth...

Sparkletastic · 06/12/2008 16:25

yes

hecAteAMillionMincePies · 06/12/2008 16:30

I'd count kissing as cheating too!