My best friend and DH have never got along and whenever they see each other they just start arguining. It's really pissing me off because each of them expect me to be 'on their side' but in truth, they're both as bad.
Last night friend came over with her DH and they'd been here for around an hour before my DH upset her (said something her smelling of alcohol). She locked herself in the bathroom and I went and asked her what was wrong and she said "Nothing, I'm just on toilet" so I left her to it. 5 minutes later DH had gone running upstairs and started banging on the bathroom door shouting "stop seeking attention before I bash this fucker down" so friend shouted "fuck off and leave me alone" so DH got a pen and pad and started pushing mean messages through the door
It ended with her husband going charging upstairs and throwing a chip at DH but admitting that my friend was having an 'off day'.
Now DH says they're not allowed here again and friend says I should have stood up for her. I'm always stuck in the middle.