Some advice please. My ex hasn’t seen our children in 3 years, he stopped because I would no longer allow contact in my house, I told him he could take them to his or take them
Out but he didn’t want to so he just stopped coming, he was having £7 week maintenance taken out of his benefits for them. In may he got back in contact with a really long email saying how sorry he was for the way he treated them and that he should not have stopped seeing them, I responded and he said he wants to pay maintenance every month and he will pay it every month and if he can’t he will contact me in advance to explain why. He did this for 4 months then just randomly stopped, I haven’t heard from him since either. This was nearly 3 months ago now and he hasn’t paid since or been in contact. Would you say anything? I think it’s best if I just leave it but wondered what others think. (Btw he is earning an income but not declaring it thats how he could afford to send extra he is not relying solely on benefits) I don’t need the money and don’t rely on it it isn’t about the money I am more wondering if he should get away with thinking this is ok or not, and what happens if he contacts again in another few months or a year with more excuses?