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You don’t miss me, you just need me when you feel lonely

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AllBiMyself · Today 01:14

Can anyone relate to this?

Currently struggling with DP. We live in separate houses and if it wasn’t for me going round when my kids are with my ex, we’d only see each other once a fortnight. When I brought this up I was told it’s up to me if I want to visit or not in between. DP isn’t fussed.

Best way I can describe how it feels is in the title. Has anyone experienced this?

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Toodledootwo · Today 02:15

AllBiMyself · Today 01:14

Can anyone relate to this?

Currently struggling with DP. We live in separate houses and if it wasn’t for me going round when my kids are with my ex, we’d only see each other once a fortnight. When I brought this up I was told it’s up to me if I want to visit or not in between. DP isn’t fussed.

Best way I can describe how it feels is in the title. Has anyone experienced this?

How long you been together?

not that it really matters, move on. He’s not worth your time

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Today 02:36

To him, you're someone to shag, not someone to spend quality time with. That's why he's not fussed, and it's why so much of your time together is in his house.

Onthemaintrunkline · Today 04:04

In my opinion, if he isn’t fussed neither should you be. How blimmen insulting.

OvernightBloats · Today 04:08

This is more like a friends with benefits situation. In what way are you partners?

Bonkers1966 · Today 05:01

He is not your partner.

landmarkyear · Today 05:06

Don’t visit then and see what happens

lottiegarbanzo · Today 05:48

Partner? Surely boyfriend, part-time.

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