Sorry for the namechange. Have a friend on MN.
Me and DH were having an argument last night about money (as usual), he grabbed my shirt and pushed me against the wall. DD (14) saw him and told him to leave me alone, he shouted at her to get out and to stop interefering so she told him that if he didn't let go of me she'd make him let go. He shouted at her again and so she kicked him in the head. He staggered away holding the side of his head and she said it was his own fault. Afterwards he said he wants her to live with her dad and that he really doesn't like her.
Obviously I'd never ask her to leave us, and I told him so. This morning he apologised and said he didn't mean it but she is out of control and needs some discipline.
Now the way I feel I want to leave. Sorry, just needed to offload