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Feel very let down by my daughter

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OliveToboogie · 07/06/2026 19:18

My ex partner and I were together 10 years. We split last June 2025. The split was not pleasant he became verbally very abusive and called me some horrendous names ( Fucking Cxxx) being one of his nicer comments about me. My daughter and son got on well with my ex and I never told them about the Verbal abuse. He also refused to give me
my property back so I was out of pocket for quite a sum of money. I contacted Women’s Aid and they helped me see his behaviour was appalling and I deserved so much better.

My daughter got engaged and had a party last night. To my horror she had invited my ex her excuse was “ as I have know. Him since I was 17”. He actually had the audacity to come to the party and sat with my family. I know my daughter can invite who she likes to her party but it was so so difficult seeing him sitting there knowing how horrifically abusive he has been. Feel really angry today and let down by my daughter which is probably unfair o my part and still trying to process it all. Not sure what I am liooking for here just a place to vent I suppose . Thank You

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Oh, well I was going by the OP so now who knows!

ThejoyofNC · 07/06/2026 20:33

Gastongaston · 07/06/2026 19:56

What? Calling me a cunt means you are out of my life, for good. No friends or family would entertain you either.

Oh please. It's a word he called her during an argument. I'm glad my family and friends aren't like that.

Lomonald · 07/06/2026 21:14

OliveToboogie · 07/06/2026 19:58

I thought it was a bit odd to invited your mums ex especially since she has a good relationship with her dad but I’m willing to admit I was wrong about invite

I read that there has been other things said on other threads, which i haven't seen so was just going by your OP, maybe there is more to.it, but i still think it is odd she invited her mums ex, regardless of what's gone on.

OliveToboogie · 07/06/2026 22:40

Thank you for the comments I appreciate your honesty .

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Newgirls · 08/06/2026 11:29

You’re welcome op. Take care and tread carefully x

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