am so sad and fed up, i have had a fall out with my sis.

[deanychip]

She says that i provide no boundries for my child and that i let him be as loud as he wants and as wild as he wants to be.
she says that i allow him to jump on furniture and that he is distructive and a brat.

"so do you predict that i am facing awful problems in the future because of my parenting style willy"

Willy? I assume you were referring to me LOL

tbh it sounds like you only allow your son to behave like this in your home and you teach him right from wrong so its probably just a case of your sister being a bit uptight. Perhaps a little sibling rivalary here "look at how well behaved my child is compared to yours"

Of course if a lot of your friends started to say this to you then you can either step back take and objective view and think "do they have a point should I be changing my parenting style?" OR you could just think "you are wrong" and find new friends.

I would just hate too many other people to dislike my child because of how I am raising him - but like I said some people just dont like children and expect them to behave like small adults...which is unrealistic.