Nasty/ridiculous names you've been called /have called someone in the heat of an argument........

[kittywise]

Dp and I had a(nother) row today, I can barely bring myself to type what he called me, at least not yet!!
Tell me I'm not the only one who gets involved in this mad slinging crap

Thankyou all so much for your kind replies, it helps me to believe that i am not as crazy as he makes me out to be.

my ex husband you to call me every name under the sun f*king bitch/Tt/Ct and would also call me fridgid when I wouldn't have sex with him, doesn't really put you in the mood though when someone is always being abusive. He still doesn't quite get why I divorced him, Dum F*ker!!

Amen, Memoo.

Niecie, I could have posted that myself.

Crap isn't it shamefulatbest.

I just wish my mother had stood up to him when we were all a lot younger. He is too old to change now.

kittywise - if you do something now, your dp isn't too old to change but he does need to know the damage he is doing.

"what men really don't seem to realise is that they are essentially thick as two short planks and the secret psychological warfare they feel they are embarking on is actually plain as day to normal folk of sound mind.
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can just imagine the sort of reaction you'd have gotten if you'd made a similar sweeping statement about women,black people,chinese,single mothers or any other social group.

a few years ago dh called me a cold frigid cow. I was stunned and still hate those words ( he has never repeated anything like it). however just before he said it, i had just told him i found him physically repulsive so i guess i had it coming!

exactly, the Bod, which is why i pointed out that it's ABUSER behaviour no matter what the gender.