Is there nothing that men won't fetishise?!

[Boakingvombuster]

I've just been approached on OLD by a man looking to act out a fantasy of getting a woman pregnant. So shagging when she is most fertile and presumably having this whole fetish conversation about it - as he wants her to act out being desperate for a baby. He describes this as a delectable fantasy.

I should take him up on his offer and act out the uninspiring, functional, somewhat begrudging timetabled sex that you end up having when you actually are TTC in RL. 😐

seems an odd one but then I find the concept of timetabled sex and even the concept of ttc odd as for many of us it just happens, i didn’t need to try anything, pregnant first month

To answer your original question - no. There is nothing men won't fetishise!!!

Yeah, Lucky you, but that fortune has left you in the strange psychological state where you actually seem to think there is an equivalence between loving couples struggling to conceive and a man propositioning strangers to act out his fetish of getting a woman pregnant.

It seems to be quite a common fetish. And I’m differentiating here between people finding sex that is open to conception and the process of making babies with your partner as part of building a family a lovely emotional and sexy thing, compared to the grim reality of ‘a breeding kink’ as seen in pornography and which is so often linked to some kind of imprisonment/farming vibe 🤮

Agree. I don't even think there’s such thing as a challenging wank anymore.

Back in the olden days (before the internet) people kept their odd fetishes behind closed doors - now they’re out and proud and happy to advertise perversions to all and sundry

Does he really want to look after and pay for a child for 18 years, but you said act out a fantasy so he doesn't really want a baby, he'd better use a condom though, you don't know where else he's been sticking it.

Forcible impregnation is apparently a huge, huge porn category (as, of course, is the case with anything rapey). But the woman being desperate for a baby is a new one to me. A sperm bank would be far safer and more hygienic, and probably more fun.

Men seem to get turned on by random stuff even sweaty socks and shoes worn so much that they are falling apart.

I had a (short) conversation with a bunion fetishist. No there is nothing that men won’t sexualise.

As in, he fantasises about having sex with a baby-hungry woman running her fingernails down his back and roaring, her transports of bliss, 'Fill me with your lovely babies, Nigel!' ?

Say fine, but you'll only do it if he first helps you to fulfil your cherished fantasy about being ravished by a man dressed like a ringmaster, complete with boots, top hat and waxed moustache, on a bench in Regent's Park. So he'd better get on with growing the moustache.

So gross!

Well, that has stopped me in my tracks.

Jesus Christ what am I reading 😅 I know people say that men want sex more because it's an evolutionary thing but what kind of evolutionary quirk makes them have to be so fucking disgusting in what they want to do 🤮🤮🤮

Must confess I’m struggling to understand how this guy has contorted himself into thinking he has a fetish. His dream is sex with a view to conceiving a child. Shouldn’t he be out sprucing himself up, looking for a wife, and then taking it from there?!

Yes, they want to spread their dna wide and far 🙄

I think that's the point of the fantasy, though -- he doesn't want the actual baby. Or presumably a woman who views him as father material in any real way.

He just wants to imagine impregnating whole queues of baby-hungry women with his super-strength sperm.

No he doesn't want all the tiring, boring expense and inconvenience of actually having a child. He wants to act out with a woman the fantasy of the woman being desperate to have a baby with him.

I would say I can’t believe he would so openly and proudly share this particular desire, but actually I can well believe a man would!

Totally agree though. Sex while TTC in reality isn’t something I can imagine would make a good porn film! Weeing on an ovulation stick, frantically measuring the darkness of the line, checking the score on your app, peak confirmed, 10 mins before you need to leave for work & husband still half asleep being urgently called to action!😂

I would say I can’t believe he would so openly and proudly share this particular desire

I must say, I do think, surely there are specialist sites where these fetishists can meet each other?! Why are they on normal dating apps? Last week it was a submissive man looking for a dominant woman. Piss off to Fetish.com, mate.

Yeah but isn't it just poorly concealed code for him wanting to do it without a condom?

My experience of middle aged men is that they just assume condoms are not required 🙄 Which is presumably why middle aged women are a growth group for acquiring HIV 😑 (that's a true fact, so take note sisters!)

So not sure its that. Mind you, I never check his age as I was so grossed out. So maybe he is younger and it is. Seems a bit of a high risk ruse though, as surely he will just gross out most of the women who may have otherwise shagged him.

The answer seems to be no, to your original post, op.
There's a fine example in relationships titled 'really good or really bad' , if you want to check. 😊

Poor man probably hasn't got an actual real life woman available to him. Either that or he is firing blanks.

That was the guy with the voyeuristic shit fantasy wasn't it?

I’d suggest that you just skip forward to the part where he’s paying you 15% of his salary each month, that will soon see him off.