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Is there nothing that men won't fetishise?!

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Boakingvombuster · 02/07/2025 14:10

I've just been approached on OLD by a man looking to act out a fantasy of getting a woman pregnant. So shagging when she is most fertile and presumably having this whole fetish conversation about it - as he wants her to act out being desperate for a baby. He describes this as a delectable fantasy.

I should take him up on his offer and act out the uninspiring, functional, somewhat begrudging timetabled sex that you end up having when you actually are TTC in RL. 😐

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SquishedMallow · 02/07/2025 15:16

I don't think there's much men won't make a kink out of.

I suppose they like the fact that their sperm has caused a woman to be in a vulnerable state (pregnant) 🙄.

I do hate the sexual world we now live in. I don't think many men want 'normal' sex anymore. And in turn, many women are now 'turning off' to sex. (With men at least) Who wants to be used as a mannequin with holes ?

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Boakingvombuster · 02/07/2025 15:19

Notreallyme27 · 02/07/2025 15:14

I’d suggest that you just skip forward to the part where he’s paying you 15% of his salary each month, that will soon see him off.

That made me laugh!

And I have never come across a man with a fetish of paying a woman 15% of his salary every month. Damn, I should have kept the details of the submissive guy and suggested this to him! I think then I would find that there is something men don't fetishise after all!

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DiscoPig · 02/07/2025 15:19

Notreallyme27 · 02/07/2025 15:14

I’d suggest that you just skip forward to the part where he’s paying you 15% of his salary each month, that will soon see him off.

😀

Elevenor · 02/07/2025 15:23

minnienono · 02/07/2025 14:14

seems an odd one but then I find the concept of timetabled sex and even the concept of ttc odd as for many of us it just happens, i didn’t need to try anything, pregnant first month

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Here's your medal!

MyBirthdayMonth · 02/07/2025 15:50

Boakingvombuster · 02/07/2025 14:10

I've just been approached on OLD by a man looking to act out a fantasy of getting a woman pregnant. So shagging when she is most fertile and presumably having this whole fetish conversation about it - as he wants her to act out being desperate for a baby. He describes this as a delectable fantasy.

I should take him up on his offer and act out the uninspiring, functional, somewhat begrudging timetabled sex that you end up having when you actually are TTC in RL. 😐

I should take him up on his offer and act out the uninspiring, functional, somewhat begrudging timetabled sex that you end up having when you actually are TTC in RL

Or the furtive, truncated, not very sexy or romantic kind of sex you end up having when there are babies or young children in the house.

Blobbitymacblob · 02/07/2025 16:00

I should take him up on his offer and act out the uninspiring, functional, somewhat begrudging timetabled sex that you end up having when you actually are TTC in RL.

This made me laugh so much Op, the gap between fantasy and reality!

A friend of mine offered to put me in touch with her house cleaner who she doesn’t pay in cash. He just comes and cleans in return for her bossing him around and humiliating him. I declined because I think I’d feel I had to bleach my whole house afterwards. Confused

catin8oot5 · 02/07/2025 16:02

PermanentTemporary · 02/07/2025 14:36

I had a (short) conversation with a bunion fetishist. No there is nothing that men won’t sexualise.

This made me laugh out loud

ranthanbore · 02/07/2025 16:05

minnienono · 02/07/2025 14:14

seems an odd one but then I find the concept of timetabled sex and even the concept of ttc odd as for many of us it just happens, i didn’t need to try anything, pregnant first month

What a weird comment.

Kingsleadhat · 02/07/2025 16:11

He'd lose me at delectable fantasy. Sounds so dribbling and hand wringing

DaisyChain505 · 02/07/2025 16:13

minnienono · 02/07/2025 14:14

seems an odd one but then I find the concept of timetabled sex and even the concept of ttc odd as for many of us it just happens, i didn’t need to try anything, pregnant first month

Well good for you. Thank your lucky starts that you didn’t have to think about trying to convince and you were burdened with fertility issues. That isn’t the case for everyone.

Gettingbysomehow · 02/07/2025 16:13

minnienono · 02/07/2025 14:14

seems an odd one but then I find the concept of timetabled sex and even the concept of ttc odd as for many of us it just happens, i didn’t need to try anything, pregnant first month

I got pregnant the first time I had sex 😐

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Boakingvombuster · 02/07/2025 16:16

ranthanbore · 02/07/2025 16:05

What a weird comment.

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It was wasn't it? Stunningly myopic.

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PIayer456 · 02/07/2025 16:23

How come they have never fetishes about them hoovering, or mowing the lawn?

I’m totally be up for a role play that involves the dishwasher being unloaded, or the veg peeled.

DiscoPig · 02/07/2025 16:24

minnienono · 02/07/2025 14:14

seems an odd one but then I find the concept of timetabled sex and even the concept of ttc odd as for many of us it just happens, i didn’t need to try anything, pregnant first month

Do you struggle with theory of mind?

MeganM3 · 02/07/2025 16:31

Loads of women have a kink for the idea of impregnation. It’s a turn on for a lot of people. So not much weird about it really. During ovulations it’s definitely one of my turn ons.

BUT I saw a man who was very old (60+) wanting to play out this fantasy with a much younger woman, I think he put down 18+ which definitely felt a lot grubbier due to the age gap and predatory aspect.

Groundhogday2025 · 02/07/2025 16:32

Can you suggest to him that you just skip his trying to get you pregnant fantasy and go straight to your fantasy of him paying you £800pm child maintenance? No…? Don’t ask, don’t get 😂

Delphiniumandlupins · 02/07/2025 16:39

I expect the answer to your question is "No", having recently learned about balloon fetishes! At least impregnation is connected to sex.

YouSaidSomething · 02/07/2025 16:42

Boakingvombuster · 02/07/2025 14:10

I've just been approached on OLD by a man looking to act out a fantasy of getting a woman pregnant. So shagging when she is most fertile and presumably having this whole fetish conversation about it - as he wants her to act out being desperate for a baby. He describes this as a delectable fantasy.

I should take him up on his offer and act out the uninspiring, functional, somewhat begrudging timetabled sex that you end up having when you actually are TTC in RL. 😐

I fear that it’s men like this who end up becoming sperm donors.

SleeplessInWherever · 02/07/2025 16:44

Boakingvombuster · 02/07/2025 15:19

That made me laugh!

And I have never come across a man with a fetish of paying a woman 15% of his salary every month. Damn, I should have kept the details of the submissive guy and suggested this to him! I think then I would find that there is something men don't fetishise after all!

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You might have been surprised. Some men do fetishise giving women money.

I know someone who gets paid to call men names. I’ve been doing it my whole life for free!

UnemployedNotRetired · 02/07/2025 16:47

In the older times you might have been ashamed of your fetishes (whatever they were). Now you'll find there are whole forums and support groups dedicated to them, online.

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 02/07/2025 16:50

Tell him you’re happy send him a bill for pretend child maintenance for the next 18 years to live out his fantasy.

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