Partner on fabswingers

[headabouttoexplode2]

Name change for this because wtf?!

Me and my partner have been together almost 2 years, I was informed this morning he’s on fabswingers so I went detective and found it straight away, looking for threesomes! He’s been posting pictures throughout our relationship including one from last month, in his house, receiving a blowjob from another woman. I’m absolutely distraught, I’ve spoken to him about it and he’s acting like he’s done nothing wrong, because it was a “one off” and we’d stopped speaking for a whole week! We sorted things out and I gave him the opportunity to be honest if anything had happened in this time, he said no. I know the picture is recent because I can see his watch in it, a watch he received for his birthday in January! Obviously our relationship is over now but I feel so stupid for trusting him.

I’m not sure why I’m posting this if I’m honest, I just don’t know what else to do, I can’t process it properly, I guess I’m just looking for support as I’ve no one to turn to in real life. So sorry for rambling, my head is a mess.

What a prick!!

you are better off without him x

@828Paxthank you, I really am x

Awful for you OP.
At least you found out. You really are well rid of him.

So sorry you found out like this but you’re well rid of the sleazy twat.

I’m glad I’ve found out now and not years and years down the line, the picture I saw is haunting me though, I can’t get it out of my head.

Filthy pig, you are well rid of him.
Practically, maybe you should get a check up at the sexual health clinic, just in case.

Welcome to the land of the free, OP.

It may not feel like it now, but it's pretty nice to be free from these creeps. So many men are doing what your now ex is: if they're not on FabSwingers it's AdultWork or at the very least one of the run-of-the-mill dating apps, trying to procure free sex. You are out of this now, and good riddance to the sleaze.

Sorry to suggest this - have you thought about getting an STI test?

Make a list of a few things you'd like to do, see, and achieve over the next few months - try and focus your mind on positive things to do for yourself to give yourself a bit of a boost. 🌺

@JeanGenieJeanI get regular tests, everything has always been clear. I was tested last week for chlamydia and gonorrhea and luckily I haven’t caught anything but I’ll be getting a full screening once the incubation period is up for HIV etc.

@ShouldIEvenBotherthank you, I didn’t even know what fabswingers was until this morning, I don’t doubt that he’s also on other sites. That’s great advice, I just can’t think straight at the minute. Feels like it’s all a bad dream.

Disgusting bastard. So glad you found out. How dare he go that to you. You deserve better. Thank god you’ve ended it. What a prick!

EX-partner now, I assume! So sorry, what a horrible human being.

@Bumblebeestiltskinoh absolutely ex partner

Another disgusting man. Then they try to lie their way out of it, which compounds the situation.

(Yes, I have been there.)

@DoNoTakeNoSee I’ve had a feeling for a few months now, but never had solid proof and he denied it all, even when I brought it up he denied it until I send I’ll show the proof if I have to.

Uuuuuuuuuuugh what a lucky escape OP - all the best to you

Fab friend for letting you know, that’s a tough call.

and sorry he’s a prick.

That's good to hear

You’re better off without him - and sidebar: ‘Fabswingers’ is the most low-rent, grotsky website in the history of the internet. He’s little more than primordial slime

@SmugglersHaunti’ve just gone back onto it to delete my account, I uploaded no picture, no info about me but the amount of messages I have from men willing to meet me right now is disgustingly disturbing. And the man that I planned my future with is one of these, I’m in shock that people stoop that low. Just pure disgust.

Please go totally no contact with him.
Block him on every outlet.
Avoid him in all the usual places.
Imagine how much worse it could be if you’d married him, got pregnant and for all his promises of reform, found out he was still messing you around in this vile way.

Avoid this slimy toad of an excuse of a “man.”

In six months time I guarantee you will feel so much better but only if you totally blast him out of your life.

Time to move on.

It’s really the worst of the worst! Sorry you’re going through this - but at least you know now before it went on any longer. I hope things turn Aaron’ around for you very soon x

Goes to show there really are some sleaze buckets out there who would literally shag a stray dog if it stood still long enough. Grim grubby and just plain vile 🤢

*around, not Aaron

@TwistedWonderthey would it’s disturbing!

@SmugglersHaunti do and I’m trying to see it as a blessing, I just can’t help think that I’ve been used this whole time and he’s taken advantage of how I feel about him.

@SmugglersHaunt ABSOUTLEY right - nothing fab about it just the lowest of the low Petri dish fodder