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Partner on fabswingers

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headabouttoexplode2 · 30/03/2025 16:09

Name change for this because wtf?!

Me and my partner have been together almost 2 years, I was informed this morning he’s on fabswingers so I went detective and found it straight away, looking for threesomes! He’s been posting pictures throughout our relationship including one from last month, in his house, receiving a blowjob from another woman. I’m absolutely distraught, I’ve spoken to him about it and he’s acting like he’s done nothing wrong, because it was a “one off” and we’d stopped speaking for a whole week! We sorted things out and I gave him the opportunity to be honest if anything had happened in this time, he said no. I know the picture is recent because I can see his watch in it, a watch he received for his birthday in January! Obviously our relationship is over now but I feel so stupid for trusting him.

I’m not sure why I’m posting this if I’m honest, I just don’t know what else to do, I can’t process it properly, I guess I’m just looking for support as I’ve no one to turn to in real life. So sorry for rambling, my head is a mess.

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Itstimetoquit · 30/03/2025 21:21

Fabswingers is a disgusting site! I caught my ex on there filthy pig. It needs shutting down.

headabouttoexplode2 · 30/03/2025 21:24

@Itstimetoquit it does needs shutting down absolutely! I’ve never seen anything like it! So sorry you found your ex on it, such an awful thing to go through.

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AhBiscuits · 30/03/2025 21:29

Most men only care about their dick. Many will maintain a facade of decency, but when it comes down to it they will lie, cheat, tear their family apart. Their dick is always the main priority.

headabouttoexplode2 · 30/03/2025 21:42

It’s gets better honestly!! He said he did it because he got scared and he knew I was going to hurt him… I WAS GOING TO HURT HIM!

I’m just so so angry right now.

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