Not sure what to make of this

[TheSnugHare]

my bf was being affectionate towards me and then told me we shouldn’t get too close because he isn’t sure we will work out, but his feelings might change.we were supposed to be watching a movie together tonight. Not sure if we should now

Yeah he makes me pay for everything. he said it’s cos I’m the one that wants the relationship so I’m the one that should be making him like me. He spent £10 on me once for a late birthday gift and then made me give it him back.

Well, in that case I've got to say More Fool You.

I give up. There's no point trying to help those who are absolutely determined to be a victim.

Hes a nasty vicious abusive controlling freeloading cunt - please find some self respect and block him for good

Then get therapy to understand why you beg for a few scraps this wanker throws when he feels like sex

Don’t waste your life, your dignity and your mental health on someone who shoes you time and time again he doesn’t give a fuck about you.

Get some counselling, your self-esteem must have been in the toilet to begin with to put up with this shit for a year. The more complaints you write about him, the weaker you look. You sound quite vulnerable to have accepted all this shit from him.

his feelings might change.

Yea, he's fucking with your head. Kiss him goodbye and walk away.

Block him on everything and keep him blocked.

Stop over explaining why you’re finishing with him then ask him if he wants to get back together. He knows all the bad things he does and he does not give a shit. He likes winding you up.

Your personalities don’t work together. He’s a wind up merchant and you react badly. You want to discuss and explain things to show how he hurts you and he can’t be arsed with that.

Clear him out of your life.
I had one of these types of relationship. Wasted too many years. Be alone for a while, have fun with friends. Make sure the next one cherishes you.

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