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I found an engagement ring!!!!!

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ThisMustBeMyDream · 03/07/2024 12:00

After almost 7 years together and hoping that I'd get a proposal... I've just accidentally found the ring!!!!!!!! Putting his flaming underwear away, stuffed at the back of the drawer! Of course I looked... tried it on... it's exactly what I'd wanted and is my size! I'm overjoyed! But annoyed I found it too!

I can't tell anyone of course... I have to keep it all in! But... ARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! I'm just so freakin' excited!!!!!!!

I really hope he does it soon... he knows I don't do flashy, public things. So I'm hoping it's romantic and just the two of us, or just our family (we both have children from previous relationships). He knows me so well though so I'm sure it will be lovely. He's a teacher, so I'm guessing something might happen over the summer holidays 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞. Or perhaps it could be later this year near my 40th. I'm guessing it won't be for my 40th though, he wouldn't do it then. But he might do it around that time.

Sorry for all the exclamations marks! I'm a little excited as you can probably tell. Grin

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happysoul23 · 03/07/2024 14:02

Keep us posted - hope you don't have long to wait!

olowin · 03/07/2024 14:02

Awwww I love this thread!! So happy for you OP, and please keep us posted💍

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Ain’t you a ray of sunshine?

Chocoloca · 03/07/2024 14:03

Congratulations 🎊

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FakeMiddleton · 03/07/2024 14:09

Oh back in your box.

You didn't need to come on OP's thread and shut on her. Nothing nice to say? Don't say it.

Have a word with yourself and why you're so bitter.

BaronessBomburst · 03/07/2024 14:09

I've reported Babadook76's revolting troll post.

FakeMiddleton · 03/07/2024 14:10

@BaronessBomburst - amen. Thank you.

OP, ignore the nasty posters, please. Don't let it colour a happy period of your life.

loropianalover · 03/07/2024 14:11

OP you know things are going well for you when you get the jealousy brigade in to try bring you down! Can’t wait for you to have that ring on your finger and start planning a celebration while they’re still being laughed at on online forums.

BaronessBomburst · 03/07/2024 14:12

OP I had to Google "lily green amethyst and pink sapphire with white gold" as I had no idea what it would look like. Unusual, but very beautiful!

feelingfree17 · 03/07/2024 14:15

Excited for you 💍
Yes, it is all about give and take. Sounds like you have got the balance right.
Please post again when it’s firmly in place

Twoshoesnewshoes · 03/07/2024 14:17

Awww that’s v pretty
so exciting!
btw I put away my DP’s pants
he mows the lawn
not necessarily at the same time

TheShellBeach · 03/07/2024 14:17

Oh boy! How lovely!

PinkCandles · 03/07/2024 14:18

Yay!

QueenBitch666 · 03/07/2024 14:18

I want this! ❤️

HiddenBooks · 03/07/2024 14:21

Ha ha! I'm glad you posted and wish I'd thought to when I found mine! I still haven't told a literal soul IRL that I'd found it beforehand but was as excited about it as you are!

The only difference was I had an ounce of willpower left in me to not look at the actual ring, though he had left the receipt next to it, so I looked up the ring on the jewellers website! 😂 Somehow not looking at the actual ring itself made it OK!

I also didn't know when now-DH would propose, but I also was approaching my 40th. He booked a surprise weekend away for my birthday and had been planning on proposing on the first evening on our balcony, but the weather was shit, so he did it at home before we left!

Maraa · 03/07/2024 14:40

Ahhh how exciting! For reference, I accidentally found mine, I roughly guessed when it was going to happen, we were going away, and it didn’t ruin the moment at all, there were still tears and shock! Congratulations in advance xxxc

gardenmusic · 03/07/2024 14:47

'Liripipe · Today 12:15
SwedishEdith · Today 12:12
I never understand these adult women "hoping for a proposal". Especially "putting his underwear away".
Yes, exactly. The passive girlfriend, desperate for a proposal after seven years, a passenger in her own life at almost 40 years old and a parent, putting away her presumably able-bodied boyfriend's boxers. How do people live like this?'

Oh grow up.
Putting my husband's underwear away does not make me a doormat. He might well be cooking my dinner while I do it. Most of us do things for each other.

ThisMustBeMyDream · 03/07/2024 14:53

It is indeed! It's actually much nicer than on the photo! It's Dainty which is what I need for my poor sausage fingers!!!

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Tiddlesem · 03/07/2024 14:56

That's lovely news congratulations. When my fiance was going to propose he spoke to my dad first, my father then messaged me before my partner had proposed saying congratulations. I was very confused by the message at first as it didn't say anything specifically about an engagement so I showed my partner and his face fell. He was planning to propose that day but obviously there was miscommunication between the 2 of them. Very disappointing :(

Aposterhasnoname · 03/07/2024 15:00

God imagine being so bitter and jealous you have to come on a lovely happy thread and try to ruin someone’s happiness.

The ring sounds lovely op and make sure you come back and tell us every detail of the proposal.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 03/07/2024 15:01

Oh I love posts like this - they make me smile for the whole of the rest of the day!

And now I know why my son kept the engagement ring he bought for his fiancee in the safe at work right up until he proposed!

DogJog · 03/07/2024 15:24

It's gorgeous Op. I hope you get to wear it soon

GrumpyPanda · 03/07/2024 15:29

ABirdsEyeView · 03/07/2024 13:06

Don't post a pic until he's proposed - you want plausible deniability if he ever stumbles across your thread. The ring sounds beautiful but very easily identifying

Spoilsport.

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