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I found an engagement ring!!!!!

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ThisMustBeMyDream · 03/07/2024 12:00

After almost 7 years together and hoping that I'd get a proposal... I've just accidentally found the ring!!!!!!!! Putting his flaming underwear away, stuffed at the back of the drawer! Of course I looked... tried it on... it's exactly what I'd wanted and is my size! I'm overjoyed! But annoyed I found it too!

I can't tell anyone of course... I have to keep it all in! But... ARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! I'm just so freakin' excited!!!!!!!

I really hope he does it soon... he knows I don't do flashy, public things. So I'm hoping it's romantic and just the two of us, or just our family (we both have children from previous relationships). He knows me so well though so I'm sure it will be lovely. He's a teacher, so I'm guessing something might happen over the summer holidays 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞. Or perhaps it could be later this year near my 40th. I'm guessing it won't be for my 40th though, he wouldn't do it then. But he might do it around that time.

Sorry for all the exclamations marks! I'm a little excited as you can probably tell. Grin

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TheTigerWhoCameToEatMyArsehole · 09/08/2024 11:49

Am I the only one that feels sad she found it and has potentially ruined her own surprise. I actually feel sorry for the boyfriend if he's planned of all out and she already knows.

ForestForever · 09/08/2024 11:49

I saw this thread a few weeks ago and once I noticed it was back in trending I was really hoping to be able to read an update and I’m so happy to see that there was. Hugely excited for you OP! 🍾 🥂 😁😁😁

HideTheCroissants · 09/08/2024 11:51

Dygger · 09/08/2024 11:23

This. Did we slip back to the 1950s?

Oh do come off it. Today I washed his (and my) underwear, put them on the line and later will put them away. Last week HE did a wash load (which included my washing) hung it on the line, ironed some of it and put it away. What sort of person ignores their partners needs and only takes care of their own?

Sorry OP….. can’t wait for the update 💍

Beanz2022 · 09/08/2024 11:51

I’m so excited for you!!!

Wishimaywishimight · 09/08/2024 11:56

Are you going to pretend to be surprised OP? I'm a terrible actress/liar, my DH would see through me straightaway!

poppymango · 09/08/2024 11:57

lastgreat · 09/08/2024 11:46

Best thread ever Grin

Isn't just!! It's really brightened up my Friday 😊

whereisthelifethatirecognize · 09/08/2024 12:02

Hope everything goes smoothly, OP

Emmelina · 09/08/2024 12:03

TheTigerWhoCameToEatMyArsehole · 09/08/2024 11:49

Am I the only one that feels sad she found it and has potentially ruined her own surprise. I actually feel sorry for the boyfriend if he's planned of all out and she already knows.

Not at all, he could have found a better hiding spot! :)

alrightluv · 09/08/2024 12:04

@HideTheCroissants same with dh and I. We both do chores. Think there are green eyed monsters on this thread?

Didimum · 09/08/2024 12:08

Dygger · 09/08/2024 11:23

This. Did we slip back to the 1950s?

I put my DH's underwear away. I also hoped for a proposal. I'm also a high earner, work full time and DH did 6 months shared parental leave and does the majority of the childcare.

The bigger question is who pissed in your cornflakes this morning?

BitOutOfPractice · 09/08/2024 12:10

How have I only just found this thread?!?

For the record, whoever puts the washing away puts all the pants away. It's about 50/50 who does it in our house.I hope that's acceptable.

surreygirl1987 · 09/08/2024 12:15

Eeeeeeeee

martinisforeveryone · 09/08/2024 12:19

I always put my husband’s underwear away. I might even have ironed it first if I felt like it. I like folding and I like neat drawers, whether they’re mine or not.

If anyone’s on the verge of slamming me for that, he gets up first and brings me tea in bed every single day. He does the majority of the cooking and lion’s share of the cleaning.

You never know how people share the load.

Happy days OP.

BobbyBiscuits · 09/08/2024 12:22

That's really cute. Just imagine if you found it and it was totally not your style! It's great you already know you love it. Just keep quiet. Haha.
After a week or so I'd be tempted to say. 'You usually text me at work, but I'd really like you to give me a RING today..'

rainydays03 · 09/08/2024 12:23

So invested in this!!!

Floralie222 · 09/08/2024 12:24

ThisMustBeMyDream · 09/08/2024 11:04

It's not in the drawer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Eeeeeeeeekkk!!! 😁

Lilacapples · 09/08/2024 12:27

😬

spiderlight · 09/08/2024 12:27

On the edge of my seat waiting for your update!!

KaleQueen · 09/08/2024 12:28

HideTheCroissants · 09/08/2024 11:51

Oh do come off it. Today I washed his (and my) underwear, put them on the line and later will put them away. Last week HE did a wash load (which included my washing) hung it on the line, ironed some of it and put it away. What sort of person ignores their partners needs and only takes care of their own?

Sorry OP….. can’t wait for the update 💍

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I wash my husbands pants AND I fold them before I put them in the drawer! I put his socks in pairs too! I’m educated to post graduate level and have a professional full time job and two children aged 8 and 12. But I still find time to fold pants. Sorry if that offends anyone 😂
ps have also been here since the start an have just nearly filled up reading the update. Please never ever tell him you knew he’d be gutted! But good luck!

RubyMentor · 09/08/2024 12:30

Adding a post just for the update.

How exciting!

Dominoeffecter · 09/08/2024 12:31

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 03/07/2024 16:47

So sad that some women feel the need to be bitches and try to ruin other women's happiness.

Congratulations OP!

Dont call women bitches

Feelingblue77 · 09/08/2024 12:31

How exciting! I've checked for updates three times this morning - can't wait to hear more - so happy for you OP.

ThisMustBeMyDream · 09/08/2024 12:36

We've made it to the airport, just having lunch nearby. We are here super early!
I can't stop smiling. Even though the kids are being absolute ratbags!

I wonder if he is going to ask my dad first? He is a little bit traditional, so I suspect he might. My dad and his wife are coming on holiday with us. Which is why I thought he wouldn't do it on holiday in case my mum got upset 🙈.

Oooooh this suspense is killing me!!! Wonder where he has stashed it. I've packed all cases including hand luggage so he must have it in his pocket. He's got a hoodie tied round his waist so I can't see any pocket bulges 😆.

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ThisMustBeMyDream · 09/08/2024 12:38

Nails done to match the pink in the ring! This might be the last photo of my ringless hand!! 😍😍😍😍

I found an engagement ring!!!!!
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Tiredofallthis101 · 09/08/2024 12:40

Good luck! So exciting

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