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Can this really happen?

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PlantsAllOverThePlace · 11/04/2024 19:36

Hi there,
OK, the other night l was doing some online training on my husbands computer, he'd said l can use it anytime. I was trying to find a Web page that l'd looked at the previous night - and had totally forgot what is was called.
Thought, oooo, l can search the history (l'm a real technophobe) but managed to get the history up.
As l scrolled down to find the elusive page, l saw on a Google search 'Pornhub' then the line above gave the actual Web address (with a lovely little picture next to it, just incase l wasn't sure what it was!)
I scrolled further down and realised it was a list of stuff my husband has done on his phone. The other night we were googling kids books, so when l saw them all come up, l knew it was from his phone. I had no idea he'd linked his phone to his computer and didn't even know you could do that.
One of the times was given as just after he arrived at work. Others were after l'd gone to bed and l remember he'd stayed up.
I asked him about it, saying it was fine, it was just surprising as he's not a sexual kind of person. He said he had no idea how it was coming up on his Google searches. He said it may have been from when he'd downloaded some daft games, and that he had no idea what was going on but he assured me it wasn't him. I really don't mind, but l did feel a little side swiped by it. It was his constant ' l don't know how this is happening'. He promised me it wasn't him.
I have no clue when it comes to technology, so l don't know if what he says is true. On one of the searches it was typed in as 'Pornhbb', then the next Google search was typed in as 'Pornhub', then onto the actual web page. Which struck me odd.
Anybody know if he could actually have something downloaded unbeknown to him? I really hope he's not lying to me. He knows l'm fine with stuff like that. Thank you 😊

OP posts:
Hont1986 · 12/04/2024 23:09

Do you have any children?

PlantsAllOverThePlace · 12/04/2024 23:15

Not together no, we both have adult kids from previous relationships.

OP posts:
Startrekkeruniverse · 12/04/2024 23:16

I’m just wondering why you questioned him about it? Isn’t it up to him if he watches it?

Smidge001 · 12/04/2024 23:44

Has he given an old device to someone else?

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