Just curious.
A few hours earlier we have a discussion where I’m in the wrong. I probably am.
I thought I’d tidy but he asks me to watch the apprentice with him. We’ve are sat on separate sofas, no previous moves to cuddle, compliment etc. the show ends and he suggests to go upstairs as the kids are out.
To me the idea comes out of the blue and I’m not prepared at all. I don’t want to strip off in the cold in an unmade bed. It’s odd but he sort of goes inwards, it’s like I may as well not be there. It’s a bit too much info but afterwards he will just say ‘sorry , I’m rubbish in bed ! ‘ And then starts talking about the kids/ his work.
I’ve lost my saucy mojo, is this what I’m supposed to expect ? what do other partners do? Ideas please!
Also if it’s relevant.. and it’s kind of embarrassing, I’m 60 so things are not as firm as they once were and I’m now a wobbly 14. he’s always been big - rugby in youth- but he’s now got an enormous stomach. It’s actually not comfy to be ..you know.
what do other people do ?!