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PearlShaker · 18/03/2024 12:11

Hello,

I have never posted before on here so here goes : I have been chatting to someone online for 2 months via whatsapp. and one video call/voice messages etc. We were supposed to meet up a while a go and he said he had forgot. He said it was mostly because he had got a new phone and lost numbers, he said he assumed he had lost his chance. Anyway fast forward to last week and we had made arrangements to meet at my house ( to pick me up). He was texting during the day and called me after work saying he would be a bit late as he he had forgot his change of clothes and was going home, told me not to worry he wasnt cancelling. He never turned up after that call. I tried to call him, thinking something had happened and he didnt answer. He has been online on whatsapp and I have heard nothing at allll!!. Would you ask what happened and why I was stood up?. I have not messaged him since, but I am not sure what to do?. Any adice would be great

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ManchesterBeatrice · 19/03/2024 19:38

Anxiety😂😂😂😂

rainbowbee · 19/03/2024 20:08

Never contact him again and never again give out your address to someone you don't know.
'Anxiety' who died he think he is, the tit.

Pinkbonbon · 19/03/2024 21:08

Probably married and got caught trying to step out.

In future, meet them within 2 weeks of talking. Absolute maximum. Otherwise the liklihood is they are time wasters. Only looking to chat for the ego boost.

southeastlady · 20/03/2024 17:43

Nicebloomers · 19/03/2024 19:18

He’s probably got a wife.

Sorry you’ve been messed around but it’s time to block him and move on and do not give your address out next time. Stay safe.

Wife was my first thought too

Shiningout · 20/03/2024 18:04

PearlShaker · 19/03/2024 07:18

Thank you for all your comments much appreciated. I blocked him, I just felt like I was stupidly waiting for an explanation but I've wasted enough time. Lesson learned

Op you said you blocked him.... So how has he messaged you? You're Clearly invested in this guy for some bizarre reason so just crack on, but be prepared to be fucked around again

Poppyzo · 20/03/2024 18:08

My guess would be he isn’t single. Firstly I would never give out my address always meet somewhere neutral. Secondly if they don’t want to meet within 2 weeks forget and move on. Have your boundaries in place to keep yourself safe.

PearlShaker · 20/03/2024 18:14

I blocked him. Why would I lie?. Even on my phone, but unfortunately my blocked messages on my phone go to a spam folder. Obviously I saw I. Thanks for your comments and to all. I have most certainly taken comments onboard

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