Morning all. A bit of background. I've been married to H for 10yrs together 19yrs two Ds
Always had a happy marriage until last year. We started to grow apart, both to blame. I had questioned if he was happy and he kept assuring me was. Oct 2023 after an argument he told me he wasn't sure if he was in love with me anymore. I went to parents for a few days and we agreed to work on things. He made no effort and after limping on he left in November citing he just couldn't get those feelings back for me. During this time I had asked if there was somebody else. He denied it. I had a feeling it was somebody from work.
Last night he finally came clean and said he's been seeing somebody but it only started at the beginning of February and they've been out 3 times. It's the woman he works with. He expects me to believe nothing has been going on beforehand.
I'm in bits.