Husbands google search

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My husband looked up “Luna lovegood porn” in a google search on a tablet I also use. Am I right in feeling like this is weird verging on wrong.

Really gross.

If I was googling schoolboys to masturubate to I'd expect not only My partner but society to be deeply concerned and have a issue with it.

Why is this normalised for men ?
Why aren't other men holding these men accountable? Given other men will most likely see these men on their worst behaviour. Why are people trying to excuse this behaviour. Why is the bar for men so ridiculously low. Why do they feel so entitled to any women's/child's body. It's so gross.

Good call op on separating. I'm sure he won't see an issue and all the blokes in the pub won't either but there absolutely is a giant issue here.

Why aren't other men holding these men accountable?

They're doing it too?

Or would be if they didn't fear rhe consequences?

Basically, OP, he liked the look of her as a child so much he wanted to see if he could find an adult version of her naked. .

That's about the long and short of it.

Basically, OP, he liked the look of her as a child so much he wanted to see if he could find an adult version of her naked. .

Or a lookalike or deepfake. I doubt he cares much if it's an adult. He may pretend it's ok if it's not really a child but it's about his nasty wants. And deeply disrespectful of the actual woman!

I think you are overreacting unless you have other reason to believe that he has an interest in underage girls.
He might be a creep, or maybe he just heard about it and googled it just like I did now upon reading your thread.

I agree with this entirely

I'm sorry but I utterly fail to see why anyone would 'google it' when 'it' is a name - any name tbh - followed by 'porn'. wtf do you think it could possibly be?

I mean seriously, if any of you are googling " <random name> porn" you're asking to see random porn. If you want to know who 'random name' is then surely anyone with an ounce of sense would just search for the name first?

Essentially yes, it's gross. I honestly think whilst the "good guys" might nod along and say no its not right in certain groups and situations. Deep down don't see anything wrong with it. "Its not hurting anyone" "its just images or videos"
Always different when it's their daughters though isn't it.

What's the saying ...men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid men will kill them.

I think it’s dangerous to jump to conclusions without checking what even comes up upon searching it.

Snap! I was chatting to someone about fox sex in 2010 as they're so loud in our area and he said they did it end to end and I said "no way" and we googled.

I'd hate for someone to think I had a fox fetishism!

I think it’s dangerous to jump to conclusions without checking what even comes up upon searching it.

Nope. There's no danger whatever in not searching for <random name> porn.

Anyone who does it is clearly willing to find porn about <random name>

And in this case, the man knew who 'luna lovegood' is.

No excuses. Why defend the indefensible?

Snap! I was chatting to someone about fox sex in 2010 as they're so loud in our area and he said they did it end to end and I said "no way" and we googled

Oh yeah right.
'How do foxes have sex' is exactly equivalent to "<schoolgirl character> porn".

Not.
Clue. One may lead you to bbc nature documentaries.
The other is liable to lead you to images of (or purporting to be of) child sex abuse.

Anyone with an ounce of common sense knows that, surely?

So fucking grim isn't it. What is it about tiny bodies that they like. They all need to die in a fire

Well, I managed not to Google it...

Largely because I don't want to see anything related to that search term.

I didn’t know either. Why is that so confusing?

I didn’t know either. Why is that so confusing?

You couldn't guess the type of thing that a female name followed by 'porn' was?

Yeah, I'm confused that anyone would google that innocently.

Anyway, the OPs said her DH knew who luna lovegood was.

Yeah. The guys just likely a poor speller collecting pieces for his Harry Potter chess set. Some people always have to jump to the worst conclusions.

The term "fox sex" doesn't contain the word "porn". You're clearly not looking for porn with foxes in it.

*Basically, OP, he liked the look of her as a child so much he wanted to see if he could find an adult version of her naked. .

That's about the long and short of it.*

Mmm.
It could be that he likes the look of her as a child and he wants to see "real" (a very young porn actress dressed up as her) or animated porn with her character in it, the age she is in HP.

Presumably her youth, innocence, and other worldly ness are the "fetish".

Just googled her and she's not the character I thought she was, but she's still obviously very young/teenage at most. He evidently finds blong haired, blue eyed, cute and barely legal (in fact not legal I presume in earlier films) look a turn on.

But was he looking for her at that age or has she resorted to only fans or something?

I'm not excusing it by any any means, but would you say the same if it was Drew Barrymores tits in the search.
Omg she was 3!

I think there are some leaps here with regards to sexual abuse images of children.

Fk he's a right sad ass/creep that he can't even watch HP, a kids/family franchise, without fixating sexually on tweenage actresses/characters and feeling compelled to try to find porn with that character.

The fact that porn or images like that exists just proves some men's predeliction to sexualise absolutely everything. Including what's supposed to be non sexual kids/family entertainment.

Did he mean to put Linda Lovelace 😂 I bet he did.
Was that her name... Deep throat etc?

After coincidentally watching loads of Harry potter films?

I would have had no idea that Luna Lovegood was a HP character (or a character at all tbf) or a child at that.

I initially assumed it was maybe the name of an adult actress or something, or maybe some celebrity who may have had an adult film out 🤷‍♂️

But was he looking for her at that age or has she resorted to only fans or something?

It seems rather unlikely that an actress who had a not v minor part in one of the biggest film franchises ever would need to resort to only fans ....but a quick check suggests she is working away steadily on films and TV.

So, no.

As for trying to find porn of her as an adult ..... She clearly hasn't made any, and he didn't search for her name (the actress) anyway, which he could easily have googled and searched for; he googled the character name.

And the character is a tween/teen girl.

He was probably looking for real porn with an actress styled as the character, or deep fakes, or animated porn.

MN users are rarely porn users so there is huge naivety and ignorance about porn and animated porn.
There's a big market for animated porn with characters that are too young to be depicted sexually.