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Husbands google search

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Offyoupoppet · 28/02/2024 19:43

My husband looked up “Luna lovegood porn” in a google search on a tablet I also use. Am I right in feeling like this is weird verging on wrong.

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GreyCarpet · 28/02/2024 21:52

Objectrelations · 28/02/2024 20:47

Are you sure it's not shorthand for a search on the actress who is in her 20's? I just googled that name without the porn suffix and got pictures of her now. Unless I had doubts already about him that's what I would assume.

Again, you would seriously assume that if you discovered a character/actor name + porn in a Google search that the person searching had used the addition of porn as a shorthand way of seeing fully clothed, every day photos of them in their 20s, what? Just out of curiosity?

Again, seriously??

Priderock · 28/02/2024 21:57

IsThisOneAvailable · 28/02/2024 20:28

Is it possible he'd heard it mentioned and wondered what it was?

I can honestly say I have never heard of it, and have no idea what it is. I was tempted to Google it, but having read the replies, maybe I won't 😬

Same

Shetlands · 28/02/2024 22:00

Offyoupoppet · 28/02/2024 19:43

My husband looked up “Luna lovegood porn” in a google search on a tablet I also use. Am I right in feeling like this is weird verging on wrong.

I don't know what sort of tablet you have but if I click on History in my tools bar, I can see a link to every page I've visited. If yours has that facility, you'll know if he went further than searching for the title. If your history has been wiped, you'll also know for certain he did.

Mumoftwo1312 · 28/02/2024 22:03

I think this is genuinely one of those log it with 101 moments.

It's illegal to have csa images on your hard drive. The police can seize them to have a look, if they have enough cause to suspect.

Edit - that was the general "your" not op

boomingaround · 28/02/2024 22:04

I've just googled "is there a pornstar called Luna lovegood" and a few results came up that indicate there is. I've not clicked on any for obvious reasons but it might not be as sinister as you think. Also are you sure he searched for it rather than clicked on it on a porn website? When you go on porn websites you see a small video of the movie- a lot of people will click on the video images they like the look of rather than the name they like and things are often named misleadingly. For example I've noticed they will name something "teen" when the woman in the movie is clearly in her 20s or 30s (presumably for maximum hits).

Mumoftwo1312 · 28/02/2024 22:05

For example I've noticed they will name something "teen" when the woman in the movie is clearly in her 20s or 30s

Still gross.

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Offyoupoppet · 28/02/2024 22:11

It’s a kindle fire tablet. It seems just to be a google search. There is no indication he visited any sites off of this particular search however I cannot be sure he has not deleted search history as I know he has in the past (related to gambling)

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lifeisfunandflowersbloomintherain · 28/02/2024 22:14

Yeah get him not to do that and focus on you.

Prove that you are better than the iPad and offer him more in return in bed sheets and enjoyment.

Try the silver lining playbook movie or fifty shades of grey cosplay.

That might help better than the iPad situation maybe it's a thought he's always had related to that 50 shades of grey movie ? .

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Offyoupoppet · 28/02/2024 22:18

No thanks. We are in the process of separating.

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EllaPaella · 28/02/2024 22:18

lifeisfunandflowersbloomintherain · 28/02/2024 22:14

Yeah get him not to do that and focus on you.

Prove that you are better than the iPad and offer him more in return in bed sheets and enjoyment.

Try the silver lining playbook movie or fifty shades of grey cosplay.

That might help better than the iPad situation maybe it's a thought he's always had related to that 50 shades of grey movie ? .

🤔🙄

Ihatebuswankers · 28/02/2024 22:19

lifeisfunandflowersbloomintherain · 28/02/2024 22:14

Yeah get him not to do that and focus on you.

Prove that you are better than the iPad and offer him more in return in bed sheets and enjoyment.

Try the silver lining playbook movie or fifty shades of grey cosplay.

That might help better than the iPad situation maybe it's a thought he's always had related to that 50 shades of grey movie ? .

What the heck 😂😂

Ihatebuswankers · 28/02/2024 22:20

OP this is grim and very worrying… looks like you made the right call separating!

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Offyoupoppet · 28/02/2024 22:23

Ihatebuswankers · 28/02/2024 22:20

OP this is grim and very worrying… looks like you made the right call separating!

Unfortunately there seems to be a new thing every day confirming this as the right call. I am patiently waiting paperwork for signing but hoping i can get to that stage ASAP as it’s getting harder to stay amicable.

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tryingtohelp82 · 28/02/2024 22:43

lifeisfunandflowersbloomintherain · 28/02/2024 22:14

Yeah get him not to do that and focus on you.

Prove that you are better than the iPad and offer him more in return in bed sheets and enjoyment.

Try the silver lining playbook movie or fifty shades of grey cosplay.

That might help better than the iPad situation maybe it's a thought he's always had related to that 50 shades of grey movie ? .

Oh my god 😂

ErrolTheDragon · 28/02/2024 23:03

boomingaround · 28/02/2024 22:04

I've just googled "is there a pornstar called Luna lovegood" and a few results came up that indicate there is. I've not clicked on any for obvious reasons but it might not be as sinister as you think. Also are you sure he searched for it rather than clicked on it on a porn website? When you go on porn websites you see a small video of the movie- a lot of people will click on the video images they like the look of rather than the name they like and things are often named misleadingly. For example I've noticed they will name something "teen" when the woman in the movie is clearly in her 20s or 30s (presumably for maximum hits).

Searching for a pornstar who's named herself after a schoolgirl character (the actress was only 12 in the first of the films she was in, I think) still doesn't sound good though.

Urgh.

ErrolTheDragon · 28/02/2024 23:05

Unfortunately there seems to be a new thing every day confirming this as the right call. I am patiently waiting paperwork for signing but hoping i can get to that stage ASAP as it’s getting harder to stay amicable.

Good luck, hope it doesn't drag out too much longer.

FuckKnowsMate · 28/02/2024 23:09

lifeisfunandflowersbloomintherain · 28/02/2024 22:14

Yeah get him not to do that and focus on you.

Prove that you are better than the iPad and offer him more in return in bed sheets and enjoyment.

Try the silver lining playbook movie or fifty shades of grey cosplay.

That might help better than the iPad situation maybe it's a thought he's always had related to that 50 shades of grey movie ? .

What on gods green earth 😂😂😂😂

Tatonka · 28/02/2024 23:13

He could be looking up to see that they look like or something. I often might hear or read something and then look it up, and some may be dubious topics

Objectrelations · 28/02/2024 23:16

@ErrolTheDragon I meant it was possible he was looking for porn but of the actress now not when she was a child!! But googled the character's name nor her name.

ErrolTheDragon · 28/02/2024 23:21

Objectrelations · 28/02/2024 23:16

@ErrolTheDragon I meant it was possible he was looking for porn but of the actress now not when she was a child!! But googled the character's name nor her name.

wtf would he be looking for porn of an actress who doesn't do that? If he's hoping for deepfakes that's vile too.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 29/02/2024 00:45

lifeisfunandflowersbloomintherain · 28/02/2024 22:14

Yeah get him not to do that and focus on you.

Prove that you are better than the iPad and offer him more in return in bed sheets and enjoyment.

Try the silver lining playbook movie or fifty shades of grey cosplay.

That might help better than the iPad situation maybe it's a thought he's always had related to that 50 shades of grey movie ? .

No. We do not reward perverted men with sex.

tryingtohelp82 · 29/02/2024 00:52

Objectrelations · 28/02/2024 23:16

@ErrolTheDragon I meant it was possible he was looking for porn but of the actress now not when she was a child!! But googled the character's name nor her name.

Still young though.

Voone · 29/02/2024 01:22

Objectrelations · 28/02/2024 23:16

@ErrolTheDragon I meant it was possible he was looking for porn but of the actress now not when she was a child!! But googled the character's name nor her name.

So he likes the look of that child actress so much he decided to google her to see if she started doing porn as an adult?
That really isn't a whole lot better.

CastlesinSpain · 29/02/2024 02:22

Is he a Harry Potter fan, because Luna Lovegood is a fairly obscure character for someone with only a passing knowledge of HP to know of?

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Offyoupoppet · 29/02/2024 07:47

CastlesinSpain · 29/02/2024 02:22

Is he a Harry Potter fan, because Luna Lovegood is a fairly obscure character for someone with only a passing knowledge of HP to know of?

Yes. Sort of. Had read the books & recently had re watched the movies.

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