I’m not a troll, just wanting opinions as I am mad/hurt but DP doesn’t see the problem and I’ve been made to feel some kind of prude etc.
So we were DTD last night, halfway through DP gets his “penis extender” out. I don’t even know if it’s actually called that. Basically it looks like a dildo that he puts on (I know how ridiculous this sounds) I didn’t even know he had ordered it . We tried it a couple of months ago but I told him I didn’t like it as I have endometriotis and it really hurt me. Our sex life was/is fine, IMO he doesn’t even need it. Last night when he got it out of the draw I told him not to use it as it hurts me. He said I just need to take it and it will eventually feel ok. I said no I have endometriotis, that’s why it hurts. He basically ignored me and just carried on. After we had finished I was pissed off and told him why. He doesn’t see the problem and think I just need to “take it”
I promise again I’m not a troll and am sorry for the TMI but I’m angry that my feelings and wants have been ignored like me being hurt doesn’t matter to him