So not to drip feed I will i clude full story but short version is husband physically dragged me out if bed this morning after screaming at me and trying to push me out of bed. He also did this weird squeexing thing before that as was clearly angry at me. I'm left feeling really confused about it all as we have been together a decade and nothing like this has happened before
It was meant to be my turn to get up but I am on new medication which kept me up most of the night so I said I needed him to get up with the two kids. He felt this was unfair and got angry when I basically refused
We are both tired after a very challenging year with older child and new baby I only had two weeks mat leave so he has had to do a lot more with this baby than our first we have a equal split of most childcare and house stuff so dont know if this was just him at the end of his tether
We haven't spoken about it at all and only spoken today about kids when needed and mostly avoided each other