I'll keep this brief. Basically I got married when I didn't want to. I wasn't young really but I was naive I suppose. My ex was older and my parents had spend so much money on the wedding. He had an ex wife and was always vague about how they split. When we were married he wouldn't share money and basically did his own thing. His family seemed to control our lives a lot. When we split I found out he'd taken out a loan for a huge amount of money. Our child was 1. He refused to bother with him apart from the odd overnight. Now he has a new partner he does more.
My behaviour wasn't great and I was off anti depressants which is never a good idea.. I need to move on from.being so stupid.