Trying to make it clear and fair.
DH has the habit of telling me stuff in passing, sometimes a couple if weeks ahead. Like ‘I’m meeting so and so in the office next week’ (he is wfh full time).
He then never ‘reminds’ me or talk about it anymore until the day is coming.
This morning I got up and he wasn’t there. I thought he had gone for a quick walk - pretty normal to him.
9.00am came and still not there… I then realised his car wasn’t there, nor was his laptop. So yep gone to the office.
Ive asked him MANY times to write that stuff on our calendar. But he still hasn’t done it. He has since exchanged many messages on WhatsApp with our dcs (at Uni) but hasn’t thought he could send me a message to let me know.
I find it rude to say the least but it has become so ‘normal’ I’m starting to wonder if I’m asking too much.
It’s not just about him going to the office either. We’ve had the same issue with what he is doing at the weekend (seeing his parents, hobbies etc….).