I just need to get this off my chest, I found old posts on here portraying me as abusive and vial, I wasn't the best and am wayyyyy better than I was back then but I was never as bad as what she painted me to be, she only see things from her point of view because the the horrible parents and ex's she's had in the past. She's right on somthing I fully admit that but even everyone around us told her she's overeating and I couldn't say anything slightly negative in any way without her taking it as shot, I lost my cool alot being told I don't understand what she's saying while I'm getting the exact same back, I looked to people close to me and to her for advice on if I'm a bad person and they could see that I'm just misunderstood, and burnt out myself, so why couldn't she ?, I'm just posting this in the hopes it's lost in the sea of posts, I am Not a smart man but I'm not evil either.