In law's hate me

[Fedupwithitalll]

I've been married 20 years. My in-laws have never liked me (they are middle class aspiring to be upper class and I am working/benefit class). I love my husband to bits but he has never stood up for me when they belittle me etc. I have two degrees (one is a master's, I am only bringing it up because I am going by their terms of "intelligence") but they still treat me like I am an absolute idiot. It has got to the stage where my teenage child recognises that they bully me. My husband agrees that they do but doesn't say anything etc. Should I cut my losses and run? I feel like it

You absolutely don’t ever have to see them again. Please stop seeing these horrible people.

If your husband cared as much as you do he would have put had a very firm word by now. I would just refuse to have anything to do with them, your husband has had 20 years to sort it and he hasn’t so just don’t bother. Don’t visit, don’t call, don’t facilitate. They don’t have to like you but they should be civil to you at the very minimum.