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Sister refusing to come to my wedding

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Charlie201526 · 31/08/2023 10:55

I’ve been with my partner for 15 years we are due to get married in 2 weeks. I’ve had a falling out with my sister I currently provide childcare for her free of charge twice a week and she talks to me so rudely and insinuates I’m not looking after my niece properly ( when she knows I am think she does it whenever she is in a bad mood) anyway I snapped back that untill she apologised to me for the way she has spoken to me I will not provide childcare. She has refused to apologise and is now pulled out of her and my baby niece coming to my wedding.

m what happens when a sister won’t come to your wedding how do you get past this if you can such a big thing feels just utterly nasty and hateful. !!!

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Wizadora25 · 31/08/2023 21:11

Stop providing childcare and have an amazing wedding without her! She's the one missing out. And I would know because my sibling refused to attend my wedding.

InSpainTheRain · 31/08/2023 21:22

I honestly don't see a huge deal here. She is missing out, you have your DH and it's your day. Enjoy it! I wouldn't be offering child care in future either.

Deathraystare · 02/09/2023 18:02

Just be prepared for other family members interfering and begging you to ask her to the wedding. She has made her decision. Good luck to her getting free child care elsewhere.

DreamTheMoors · 15/12/2023 07:06

I know I’m late here, @Charlie201526— but the perfect comeback for that would be, “Don’t threaten me with a good time.”

GreatGateauxsby · 15/12/2023 07:22

firstmummy2019 · 31/08/2023 10:57

You say "OK" and get on with your life.

ZOMBIE THREAD 😡

Epidote · 15/12/2023 07:49

I just saw it is an old one.

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