Hi,
I have 2 babies, one is a toddler and the other one is 6months old.
The house work is a nightmare and my husband just keeps throwing his dirty clothes everywhere. Everythime I clean he messes it up. He leaves empty bottles on the floor, empty chocolate wrappers on the sofa, and puts his dirty clothes with the clean laundry that I had previously done.
Everytime I ask him to look after the babies so I can fold the clothes and tidy our toddlers room he throw a tantrum and doesn't want to do anything. And always complaints about how he is the bread winner and there is only one salary.
He keeps buying clothes for himself and I literally live with a Hoarder. For some reason when he sees strangers he just wants to show off that he is top notch of a husband.
He knows how depressed I'm starting to feel but it seems to be going over his head.
When I had my baby, the birth was traumatic and literally was checking out ladies on instagram while refusing to stay with me at the hospital at night . Bare in mind I almost lost my life during c section and needed transfusion.
I'm sorry for the long text but I'm not sure why I'm writing this.
What should I do?