What should I do

[1exhaustedmama]

Hi,

I have 2 babies, one is a toddler and the other one is 6months old.
The house work is a nightmare and my husband just keeps throwing his dirty clothes everywhere. Everythime I clean he messes it up. He leaves empty bottles on the floor, empty chocolate wrappers on the sofa, and puts his dirty clothes with the clean laundry that I had previously done.
Everytime I ask him to look after the babies so I can fold the clothes and tidy our toddlers room he throw a tantrum and doesn't want to do anything. And always complaints about how he is the bread winner and there is only one salary.
He keeps buying clothes for himself and I literally live with a Hoarder. For some reason when he sees strangers he just wants to show off that he is top notch of a husband.
He knows how depressed I'm starting to feel but it seems to be going over his head.
When I had my baby, the birth was traumatic and literally was checking out ladies on instagram while refusing to stay with me at the hospital at night . Bare in mind I almost lost my life during c section and needed transfusion.
I'm sorry for the long text but I'm not sure why I'm writing this.
What should I do?

Post this on one of the other boards or ask mumsnet to move it. You won't get many replies here, this is site stuff. Hopefully you get some helpful advice

Hi there,
We've moved your thread to Relationships now, and hope that you get some support. Sending kindest thoughts, it's really tough to think straight when the kids are that small. x

What should you do? It's obvious isn't it. He doesn't love you. He loves himself. There is only one answer to your question

I would LTB

I don't know how to start. We have a mortgage together and he's currently paying it whilst I look after him, the kids and the house.
Just as I posted my post I discovered that he might be seeing someone else. He literally made up that he hurt his back then said he needed to see the physio today but messaged me and said that he can't see the physio because the Physio's flight got cancelled as he was away. At 8am I emailed the physio (we use the same physio) practice to ask if the therapist is available and they said yes. So basically whoever he the woman he was meeting after work cancelled on him. He now said that the physio will see him on Thursday and that he is very upset that he didn't get to see the physio.

Fgs please make moves to leave him.