Hello,
Has anybody on here had to request a police check on their ex partners, new partner? Have you had the results returned?
I requested a police check after a number of incidents. I also requested the results at the same time. I have had nothing.
I ask because my son is spending a lot of time with the new partner. My son is returning upset. The new partner has been shouting at my son. She told him to get out the house which I witnessed on a video call. My son does not want to visit her house at all. However, his dad spends a lot of contact time, school hols, weekends with his new partner and takes our son along.
The communication is poor. My ex and new partner have prevented contact and communication a lot. My son and I were close. I do not want to lose him. His father and new partner have left him unsupervised on a number of occasions.
I have reported all incidents. I am concerned about the next holiday. How else can I help my 9 year old son (has SEMH)?
The police and social have not listened nor taken it seriously.
What can I do?