Despite being caught again and again chatting to women online and promising to stop, he carries on. On the 14th Feb this year he told me he was going to Cornwall for a work exam but 2 weeks later a parking fine arrived which showed he had been in Swindon, he denied this saying his registration had been cloned but I was able to show that he had been there by using a banking transaction, apparently he had slept in the car all night and then driven around until 1pm when he began to make his way home. More recently it has come to light that he booked a hotel at 08.12 on the 15th (which is very strange since this was the next morning) and wait for it...is saying he didn't use the room...and is even prepared to phone the hotel to prove a no-show. He is ex-military, 6'2" and very well built against my 5'2" but thinks nothing of resorting to physical force such as bending my wrists backwards or applying pressure to my neck if I 'go on' about these things. I actually do feel he is telling the truth about not cheating and think these chat apps are a way of inappropriately dealing with very high stress levels, he has been diagnosed with ptsd but only phones combat stress if he thinks he's going to lose me. Your thoughts on this would be appreciated as I can't divulge this to anyone I know in real life, as it's not like I can untell them afterwards, so am a bit stuck. Thank you