He’s 41
Twice divorced
His child lives in another country with his ex partner
He and his recent ex (not mother of his child) were cheating on each other - he had suspicions, so started hooking up with women from a dating app; she eventually left him for someone else
He has retrained as a teacher so earning no more than £35k
Has zero disposable income as he rents alone and has huge expenses
So no more dates - cannot afford it
Has only a few thousand in savings as he blew over £15k in the last 1-2 years since his recent divorce on dating women and setting himself up
He eats porridge and toast in the evenings, presumably because he cannot afford other food
He constantly complains about the state of the country and how hard it is for people like him
He has trauma from growing up in an abusive household
He’s been dating extensively and admitted to sleeping with three different women in one day
He says he’s looking for a serious relationship