My DP keeps bringing up something that happened to me in my 20"s
I was sexually assaulted by his sisters BF at the time.
It happened over 20 yrs ago and I have put it to the back of my mind as a coping strategy. But Now I can't actually cope with him not believing me.
I got out of the situation as readily as I could and put it down as a bad experience. I told my closest family who helped me move out of the house share and just got on with life.
But now DP thinks I was a willing participate.
And keeps bringing it up and it's triggering me after nearly 3 years of being together.
We were together when young.
How the fuck do I deal with it?