First “date”

[CringeTimes89]

i feel so cringe writing this.

Began speaking to a lad last year, we spoke for a while, pretty causally and then dropped off. We matched again last week and arranged a date for Friday..

Friday comes around, we didn’t make a time or place, so decided to go out with his work friends. I went out with some of my friends.

I got drunk and arranged to meet him, he came to mine. We slept together, which is what has brought me here (obviously 🙄) I didn’t intend on sleeping with him, and told him that. (He’d never brought up sex or anything sexual until Friday) I feel soo ashamed of myself. Obviously I know being drunk wasn’t the best idea, we all make mistakes on that front.

We’ve spoken a little over the weekend, but nothing yesterday and now I’m wondering if he was just after a shag?! It’s massively knocked my confidence, so much so that I’ve deleted all the apps I was on as i feel dating isn’t working for me..

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was the sex decent though, that's the main consideration when deciding to see someone again surely?

@Oopsiedaisyy it was drunk sex, with added sickness.. but yeah, it was decent.

@CringeTimes89 it's indeed cringe but it's also one of those things. No lasting effects, plenty of fish in the sea. Yes probably he has lost interest now and it's fine. Chalk this up to experience, go back on the apps and forget him. Good luck finding a true partner

@CringeTimes89 regardless of who was sick...I think it would work in favour of both parties to not ever mention that again :P

But at least you have one hell of a funny story to tell next time you'll be drinking with friends! 😄