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Suspect DH cheating

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Nancy6 · 03/05/2023 21:26

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DH is sending and receiving messages from a woman at work. I have snooped and messages are flirty to say the least. I’m getting more angry as this is going on and want to confront him but part of me wants something more concrete.

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Ianzii · 11/06/2023 12:31

If you do not have anything concrete, do not confront him as he can easily come up with all kind of stories and excuses and get his guard up and become even more discreet. Let him think his making a fool out of you and pretend you don't know anything about it and collect as much evidence as you can so when you confront him you're not basing it on hunch.

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