Tonight my husband has really shown me who he is. Nothing violent and I'm safe as are our children but it's the the straw that has broken the camels back.
We are financially very tied together with various things and also I currently only work part time self employed. I feel like before I do anything I need to sort my work situation out as I couldn't buy him out of the house at present.
I've never even considered this happening before so have no idea what I need to do. For now I'm not going to change anything at home, I just need to work out how best to leave quietly. Any advice welcome.