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He’s cheated again!

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embarrassed12 · 17/08/2022 11:43

Can’t even believe I’m writing this. My partner cheated on me 5 months after I gave birth to our son! He’s now 3.

I’ve just found texts between someone he works with, disgusting texts of what he wants to do to her in the bedroom. He’s told her he’s been single for 5 months and he lives with his mum and see his son on the weekend. We’ve just got back of holiday together, we live together, we’ve been in a really good place so what the hell is this about!!!

I can’t cope, I’m absolutely heartbroken that he’s fine this again! How do I get Over this?!

OP posts:
allboysherebutme · 18/08/2022 22:50

Ask him to leave, he won't stop, he keeps doing it and probably doesn't want to grow up.
Don't waste your life with this idiot you deserve better. X

allboysherebutme · 18/08/2022 22:53

It's him whose not good enough not you.
It's his loss. X

2boysand1princess · 18/08/2022 23:54

embarrassed12 · 17/08/2022 11:43

Can’t even believe I’m writing this. My partner cheated on me 5 months after I gave birth to our son! He’s now 3.

I’ve just found texts between someone he works with, disgusting texts of what he wants to do to her in the bedroom. He’s told her he’s been single for 5 months and he lives with his mum and see his son on the weekend. We’ve just got back of holiday together, we live together, we’ve been in a really good place so what the hell is this about!!!

I can’t cope, I’m absolutely heartbroken that he’s fine this again! How do I get Over this?!

So sorry this happened to you OP, however why do you want to get “over” it? It’s probably this mindset of yours that makes him think he can cheat, get caught and you will get over it??

BOOTS52PollyPrissyPants · 19/08/2022 01:41

You poor thing am so sorry he is such an idiot and selfish and unbelievably nasty to do that to you again. Do not take him back as it will erode all of your confidence and trust in anyone. Talk to family and friends and post on here for support. Concentrate on yourself and your child and take each day as it comes. It is nothing to do with you he is just a dickhead who will always be a cheater and will not change. Big hugs and look after yourself.

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