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What Are Your Red Flags In Relationships?

83 replies

WalthamstowMum6 · 29/03/2022 17:15

What Are Your Red Flags In Relationships?

OP posts:
Anon778833 · 01/04/2022 21:32

Any man who calls women 'girls'.

Agreed, or ‘females’

cakedelights · 10/04/2022 00:08

Abusing weed
Gambling
Over spending
Financial irresponsibility
Gas lighting
Cheating
Womanising

dropthepressure · 10/04/2022 14:38

Moves quickly in relationships and shows signs of love bombing.
Drinking or drug problems.
Sex obsessed.
Has to be asked or reminded to pull his weight with the kids/life admin/the household.
Overly charming.
No friends.
Compulsive liar for no reason.

Fuzzyhippo · 10/04/2022 19:07

When he called me crazy

Fuzzyhippo · 10/04/2022 19:16

Although I seem to be most of the things listed here, re. No friends, job and living at home Confused

Birdy272 · 10/04/2022 19:27

Alcohol problems
Poor dental/body hygiene
Never has any money

Regularsizedrudy · 10/04/2022 19:58

Calling exs crazy
Can’t work a washing machine
Tight with money or too showy with money
Feeding a sob story of their bad childhood/dead dad/hard life/whatever
Random compliments in the middle of a conversation designed to throw you off guard
Rude to service staff
Comments on other peoples looks, either in the negative or over sharing who they find soooo attractive

Crazykefir · 10/04/2022 20:15

Calling you babe love darling and never using your name ever.

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