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Why did you leave?

52 replies

Juggle6 · 09/02/2022 22:19

Just that really- if you have, what made you leave your relationship?

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GrandmasCat · 17/02/2022 01:07

@makingitalladdup, I am not going to say it was easy and I don’t think he was as good as most people thought. We ended in good terms but once we started the separation of assets… it was clear that all those red flags I tried to dismiss during my marriage where actually pointing to the dangers in a proper minefield.

That’s why you need to pay attention to the little things that do not change, because they are the signs of what is to come and the best way to avoid the mines is to leave before things become so complex that is difficult to make a run.

PyjamasOClock · 17/02/2022 05:19

Financially abusive, or took advantage at least. And then started multiple online "relationships" with women on the other side of the world... on my laptop Shock Hmm . So glad to have my freedom, life was tough for 6 months or so but love it since. My friends are amazing.

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