Argument on nye, am i being petty or…

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Both had a few drinks music on good night so far,
Until i gp to get plates for our meal, he follows me out slaps my bum too hard
I tell him, he says he will do it again im being a victim etc…
I say I don’t like it when hes had to many drinks he goes loud & obnoxious,
He says oh stop being a victim, il do what i want
I say why do you have to ruin things im going to bed, he swears at me.

I wouldn't like that either. It sounds as if he doesn't care that he hurt you

He sound like a tosser who can't handle his drink.

I'd be showing him the door. He's a loser.

Sounds like an obnoxious cunt tbh, slapping you then arguing when you ask him not to. Fuck that.

No you're not being petty. He sounds like an ugly drunk who made it about him and what he wants not about how it made you feel.

sober up and tomorrow talk about it then.

if he's still a twat, reassess the relationship. new year, new start for you as a single ?

I’ll do what I want (to you)?

He would be gone for that alone.

He sounds awful and i bet this isnt the only thing about him that is dislikeable

Yuck! You are not being petty.

Fuck. That. Shit

He sounds like a shit head
I hope he's just a boyfriend and you can dump him tomorrow

Thanks i will speak about it later.,,
This morning he said he couldn’t remember 😏

Oh, the amnesia defence. How predictable. 💐

So he’s either going to stop drinking completely and attend some meetings, or he’s off. Being so drunk that he abuses you and “can’t remember” is not good enough.

He actually wasn’t that drunk he had about 5 pints

Couldn’t remember, my arse. Get to fuck with that get out clause.

He is ugly abusive scum who thinks he can assault you with a few drinks and pretend he doesn't remember.

He assaulted you OP.

You need to wake up to your situation.

This is not a good man.

What is your situation?
Married? Children?
Living together?

This is not a healthy relationship.

I would say, “Yes you do.” and not let it drop.

Think about what he meant.

He wasn't that drunk
He hurt you
He denied you bodily autonomy
He claims not to remember

The first and last cannot both be true, can they?

So he is lying to you.
He is abusive and you need to work out what you want to do about that.

Like fuck he can’t remember… does he think you are stupid!

Get the fuck away from that horrible man.

my first of the year ltb

You need to let him know how unacceptable it was. If he really can't remember he needs to have a think about his drinking.

Is it really worth leaving over
Have a family new house pending
Pets
I have spoken he said he drank too much but hes not abusive hes saying it was a gentle spank