Which one to choose ?

[novembeer]

Note - it's for friend not for myself
If you hve option which one u will choose I understand ppl say earn ur own money etc which is fine but if u have option which one will be ur choice ( some culture don't have that sort of independence it's for them)

Option 1
Good guy…
Good salary …
Got own house …
Will never cheat …
Looks ok ok not v handsome …
V family oriented …
Crap in sex …
Mummy boy …
Bit controlling…
Good with money …
Do take care of me and loves me …
V knowledgeable with investment and future savings …
Don’t drink don’t smoke …

Option 2
Good guy …
Earn less the good guy 35k …
Will get house with my help and savings …
Cheating he won’t too …
Looks good handsome …
For him I m the priority …
V good in sex …
Not mommy boi …
V independent …
Go loves me and take care of me …
Ok ok with money …
Not v investment and savings coz of less earning …
Drink occasionally & don’t smoke…

@ElectraBlue

Neither...

That amount of confusion/indecision simply shows that they are not the right guys, full stop.

But also it is completely unfair to both men to turn them into a shopping/wish list.

They deserve to be with someone who genuinely likes them for who they are.

Amazed by the comments from people who seem to think this is an OK thing to do...

Again it's culture difference in there culture it's v normal u date few ppl before u decided which one you want to marry .. specially Asian culture.... and that applies both ways guys and girls

So are you looking before buying or currently stringing them both along?