Hi. I am new to this so i may be doing this wrong. Feeling a bit overwhelmed so just joined. I am currently in a relationship of 16 years with 2 boys. I feel like my partner dislikes me and "puts up with me" Which I know is strange. Every time we have a disagreement he throws the same hurtful comments that I have no friends and I’m a mean and nasty person. Usually I just brush it off but it’s really getting to me as don’t think he is just saying it anymore just to hurt me I think he means it. He tells all his family I’m crazy. I don't want to get get too personal but I feel like he's only nice to me on the days he wants to sleep with me. His tone of voice changed and he is helpful. I work 5 days a week and my life revolves around my children. I don’t really have a social life or friends. He works but also does what he wants when he wants...gym, fishing etc. I’m finding it hard and have joined this chat as I really am starting to worry that I am a bad person. Like why say it all the time if you don't think it? I'd much rather he called me different names